Lily
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Post by Lily on Feb 5, 2012 15:48:48 GMT -5
Not to be unsympathetic, but I never could understand women who stick around for abuse. Another option with this ongoing problem is simply not to have a male in your life at all. Problem solved. www.futureswithoutviolence.org/ |
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Post by Christie Bremmer on Feb 5, 2012 16:43:10 GMT -5
Yeah you have a point, you'd miss a lot of good times though, but hten it could be argued that you'd also miss the bad ones as well. what really burns me is how these women come across as so ruddy helpless. They're adults, no?
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Post by jacklawson on Feb 5, 2012 18:06:46 GMT -5
That's why a friend with benefits is the answer, everyone wins. I recommend it. ;D
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Lily
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Post by Lily on Feb 5, 2012 21:58:22 GMT -5
That's why a friend with benefits is the answer, everyone wins. I recommend it. ;D I know the "friends with benefits" idea is popular, but I think it's an attempt to have one's cake and eat it too. As soon as the "benefits" begin, then it's no longer a friend, but, (biologically speaking), a mate. Hence, expect to be plagued by the same complications and angst you sought to avoid. |
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Post by Richard on Feb 5, 2012 22:45:56 GMT -5
As soon as the "benefits" begin, then it's no longer a friend, but, (biologically speaking), a mate. Hence, expect to be plagued by the same complications and angst you sought to avoid. Yeah, first you give them a sock drawer, then the next thing you know, they are hanging stockings in your shower. ;D |
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Post by Lily on Feb 5, 2012 23:05:52 GMT -5
;D Yep, and borrowing your comb! ;D
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